Sexified vs Dexified - What's the difference?
sexified | dexified |
(dexify)
Defend, explain, and/or justify.
* {{quote-book
, year = 1986
, title = Don't Stop Now, You're Killing Me: The Sadomasochism Game in Everyday Life and How Not to Play It
, author = David Brandt
, publisher = Poseidon Press
, isbn = 0671527959
, ol = 2712285M
, page = 88
, url = http://books.google.com/books?id=9PbfaoZDZigC&pg=PA88&dq=dexify
, passage = This is a common masochistic sabotage that I describe with the acronym "dexify ." When individuals defend, explain, or justify, they are unnecessarily supporting the reasons for their decision and giving others the opportunity to rebut their rationale.
}}
* {{quote-book
, year = 1991
, title = Stop Improving Yourself and Start Living
, author = Roberta Jean Bryant
, publisher = New World Library
, isbn = 0931432693
, ol = 1864494M
, page = 65
, url = http://books.google.com/books?id=cf045cSryxkC&pg=PA65&dq=dexify
, passage = Powerful people don't dexify (defend, explain, or justify).
}}
* {{quote-magazine
, year = 1991
, month = March
, title = Principles of Rapport - Focus Group Moderation
, author = David Farlow
, magazine = Quirk's Marketing Research Review
, volume = 5
, url = http://www.quirks.com/articles/a1991/19910301.aspx?searchID=834072983&sort=9
, passage = The reason for this is that when you ask "why" questions people feel defensive and have a tendency to "dexify " (defend, explain, justify) what they said.
}}
* {{quote-book
, date = 1998-03-10
, title = Surviving Medical School
, author = Robert Holman Coombs
, location = Thousand Oaks; London; New Delhi
, publisher = Sage Publications
, isbn = 0761905294
, ol = 687015M
, page = 145
, pageurl = http://books.google.com/books?id=v-cnTDxFfEIC&pg=PA145&dq=dexify
, passage = We may “dexify ” — try to defend, explain and justify — so that the angry person will stop being angry with us.
}}
