As nouns the difference between scolder and scoldee
is that scolder is one who scolds while scoldee is one who receives a scolding.
scolder
English
Noun
(
en noun)
One who scolds.
The oystercatcher, so called from its shrill cries.
(US, dialect) The oldsquaw.
Synonyms
* (one who scolds) castigator, censurer, vituperator