In obsolete|lang=en terms the difference between polite and violence
is that
polite is (obsolete) smooth, polished, burnished while
violence is (obsolete) ravishment; rape; violation.
As an adjective polite
is well-mannered, civilized.
As a verb polite
is (obsolete|transitive) to polish; to refine; to render polite.
As a noun violence is
extreme force.